A man's 3-bit manual

Every guy must start somewhere, so why not start with the top 3 most common mistakes guys make with women. Let us begin:

1. Men who take themselves too seriously fail with women. I’m not saying you’re one of them, but I do believe everyone can take a chill pill every now and then and just relax and not take themselves so damn seriously. When you’re around women, be the light-hearted guy who loves life and lives it to the fullest. Actually, scratch that; when you’re around everyone, be that guy! Happiness is like a drug to women; they all want to be around the guy who can make them feel care-free. And to make them feel care-free, you must first be care-free yourself.
2. Men who do not LEAD fail with women. Women are magnetically attracted to a man who can smoothly lead her and the interaction. In other words, don’t look to her to come up with all the “plans” / where to go on dates, etc. This is a huge turn off. When a woman asks “so what do you want to do?”, you better not reply back with “I don’t know what do YOU want to do honey?” Leadership ability is a skill in and of itself and it takes practice. It’s NOT something humans are naturally born with but rather something we learn throughout the course of our lives. Remember that.
3. Men who do not properly escalate fail with women.“Escalation” is the term I use to describe the progression from “friendly vibe” to “sexual vibe”. You never want to end up in the “friend zone”. You know, when you finally dig up enough courage to go in for the kiss and she gasps and said those dreaded four words: “LETS JUST BE FRIENDS”. Painful I know. Proper escalation completely eliminates this.